Thanks for sharing your story with us! I am a woman that has met the man of my dreams, and he recently divulged his diagnosis to me as well. We have only dated for a little over a month, but already I cannot see myself without him! We have discussed this issue to no end and I am taking my time to decide what is best for my safety. Hoping God protects the people that follow their heart and not their mind in this case. Best wishes to you:)

Why is it not hard for me to imagine that your girlfriend was honest enough to tell you the truth, but just as significant that a guy like you, (who is already head over heels) is ready to jump at being the understanding, supportive type. I'm not so sure the same support would come from a woman who might be given the "truth" from an infected boyfriend. Why? In our planet's animal kingdom it's embedded in the female gender to scream, or run from danger. It is, I believe, why so many men are truthfully accused by women of lying about themselves. Or at least not giving a very accurate assessment of who they are, or what they stand for. So you see, when a woman is honest with a man, it's likely that her inborn nurturing component is coming into play, but when she is confronted with the same news spoken from a man, her ability to 'forgive' can be less.

I read both comments about you both using the bervin protocol. Has this method been working for you? I'm hesitant to try it. I really want to get rid of my herpes. I've never had an outbreak and don't ever want to experience it. Kayla, I would like to know ur outcome. Thank you.

Hi Healed, I'm in the middle of my protocol with Bervin, wondering if you have the same symptom as I when you did it. I have unbearable painful rashes all over my back and neck and it's so painful. Wondering how you dealt with that? Now the spray part is very scary to me!

Thanks for your response.

Your comment could have been written by the man of my dreams! Identical situation except that I'm still unsure as to whether or not he will choose to run. We are going to meet with my doc this week to educate us both a little further on how to protect him. He truly is the perfect person for me but that's in God's will not mine. Thank you for sharing your story!

It is hard to find out that you have herpes, because someone who has it was being ruthless and mean. We need more people like you. Thank God for you.

Hi Healed. Can you please email me so I can discuss this with you further please. Email me at lacy4420@gmail. Please put healed in the subject line. Thank you

Such a blessing to know there are people like you out there, I had Herpes for 7 years and have been searching and searching for a cure because in my heart I always believed that there was a cure, I was praying one day and I heard the Lord say Eradidate, so I began to pray that God would do just that, than I went online and looked up eradicate herpes an Bervin Jackson on U-Tube came up, I purchase his protocol and he coachede through it, can't say he's the nicest, in fact we got into it a few times, my ultimate goal was to be healed, after the two weeks I took my PCR DNA test and it came back NEGATIVE!!!!! About 2 mo b4 that I had went to Planned Parenthood because I had not had an outbreak in a few months and my test was positive, I truly am a walking testimony, my advise would be to ignore Bervins demeanor and get yourself HEALED!!! It doesn't have to be a lifetime journey of depression and sadness, you can live a life of happiness like myself, I'm praying for you sis, now go and be Healed!!! There are no side affects ! Write back if you need to talk.

I am glad that you realize that she is a great woman! I am in the same boat. I am in love with a man and have to break the news to him that I have herpes and seeing his initial response didn't help. But I hope he sees that I am a great person and won't let the fact that having herpes was not my choice and because it's a skin disease ANYONE can get it. Even using a condom you can still get it depending where on the body the outbreak occurs. So if she is truly a great person I hope you give her a chance and educate yourself. Good Luck.